Having a healthy relationship includes many things, such as good communication, trust, quality time and of course a good sex life. And while many people think that it’s not that important, others have said that being compatible in bed makes things much better outside of the bedroom.

While we have many names for sex such as “doing the deed”, “the hanky-panky” and many more, it won’t hurt to get a bit more creative when actually in the bedroom. That’s why we are going to talk about what things you can use in the bedroom to make things more interesting. Let’s start.

Clit Massager

Let’s start first with women’s pleasure because women are much more complicated. The clitoris is a remarkable and complex organ and it consists of a highly sensitive bundle of nerve endings that can provide intense pleasure and satisfaction, so it’s only normal to dedicate it time when in the bedroom. To make sure that you and your partner are both satisfied and happy getting a vibrating clit massager is a must.

How does this device work? Well, it creates vibrations, pulsations and suctions and these actions awaken thousands of nerve endings and ignite sensations that are sure to leave you breathless. There are many different types and each of these has its own functions and adjustable settings, from a gentle warm-up to an earth-shattering finale.

Why are these types, not only an accessory but sometimes even a necessity in bed? Well, many women can only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, so having a toy that can help you get there is a must and will make sure things run more smoothly in bed. Of course, the most obvious reason to use a clit massager is to orgasm. Since the clitoris is the most reliable route to orgasm it’s only normal to stimulate it whether through vibrations, suctions or other technologies and while that can also be done by hand, the vibrators ensure that you will probably have an orgasm with it.

It also improves vaginal lubrication. Clitoral stimulation triggers the release of neurotransmitters and hormones that play a role in sexual arousal. This activation stimulates the production of vaginal lubrication, as arousal signals the body to prepare for sexual activity and it makes sex much more enjoyable for the people involved.

Furthermore, clit massagers also help you understand your or your partner’s desires and preferences. You get to explore each other and get to know each other’s bodies better improving your communication and even deepening feelings for each other. When it comes to choosing the right clitoral stimulator it all comes down to your own needs and preferences, so you can experiment with different types and shapes.

Sex Swing

Another way to add some excitement to the bedroom is by adding a sex swing. Not to bash on the regular positions like missionary, but when you add in a few new angles you can take things to a new and exciting level. Sex swings come in many different designs, from door swings, which are usually the easiest kind of sex swing to use because they are easy to install, to sex slings which are like hammocks and of course the traditional swing with two primary straps and other bits and pieces like handles and even headrests if needed.

Bondage Kit

For those who want to dive even deeper into the kinky stuff, then a bondage kit is a must. This is a collection of carefully chosen items designed to enhance sensory experiences and facilitate bondage play. Typically, these kits include a variety of restraints, sensory tools and accessories tailored to cater to different preferences and levels of experience. Common types of restraints include wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, collars and bindings. Sensory tools include blindfolds, gags and feathers amongst other things such as whips, paddles and even massage oils.

Games

Games are another fun and interesting way to bring excitement into your sex life. There are many games for your regular strip poker, to countless other options such as Monogamy, Truth or Dare, the erotic version, different card games and so many more in which you cannot only spice things up but also get to know your partner even better and connect on a deeper level.

Lube

Lube is one of the most important things when being intimate apart from the excitement. While many people think that this is an optional accessory, when you realise its importance, you’ll never go back to not using it. The lube essentially makes things smoother and safer. It reduces friction and if you’re using condoms, lube also makes it less likely that it’ll break or fall off, therefore increasing your safety. There are different types, such as silicone, oil and water-based lubes and they all have different features, so take your time when choosing one.

Having a healthy sex life is a crucial aspect of having a good relationship. All these items can help you spice things up in the bedroom, but remember that the most important thing is to listen to your body and your partner and communicate with each other so that at the end of the day you both go t bed happy and satisfied.